Loving Without Losing Yourself
A coaching program for women with a
loved one in active addiction.
This program will change your life by showing you how to stop living in reaction to someone else’s addiction — and start living in alignment with your truth.
You’ll learn to set boundaries that protect your peace, stop enabling, reconnect with your identity, and make decisions from clarity instead of fear. You’ll walk away with the confidence to choose yourself — not just once, but every day.
Because when you stop trying to save them, you finally have the space to heal you.
I need this →Do any of these feel painfully familiar?
► You’re always tiptoeing around, trying to contain someone else’s chaos, terrified of setting them off.
► You love them deeply — yet part of you resents what their addiction has stolen from your life.
► You’re drained from constantly hiding the truth — from friends, family, and sometimes even from yourself.
► You live in a constant storm of worry, fear, guilt, and endless sleepless nights… despite giving everything you can.
► You’re haunted by the dread of that phone call — the one you pray will never come.
► You’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way — your needs, your voice, your sense of who you are.
► You feel powerless to fix it, yet terrified to step back or draw a line.
► You carry a deep, silent shame about how much this has wrecked you — emotionally, mentally, and physically.
► You feel utterly alone, even when surrounded by people — because no one really understands what it’s like to live this.
You’ve Tried It All
You’ve begged, bargained, stayed silent to keep the peace — then spoken up, only to be swallowed by guilt.
You’ve read every book, followed every expert, cleared out bedrooms and bottles, all in a desperate bid to feel in control.
You’ve hired professionals, forced them into rehab or meetings, convinced this time would finally be different.
You’ve poured every ounce of yourself into fixing, managing, and rescuing them — even as it shattered your own well-being.
Imagine this...
You wake up without that familiar pit in your stomach — no more dread about what kind of day it’s going to be. You’re not monitoring their every move, replaying old arguments, or carrying the crushing weight of guilt and fear. Instead, you feel calm. Clear. Grounded in yourself.
You trust your boundaries — and you finally feel safe enforcing them.
You speak up without second-guessing yourself.
You spend time with people who respect your energy, and you no longer apologize for needing space or peace.
You’ve stopped trying to fix or save them, and you’ve started to choose you.
You laugh more. You sleep better. You breathe deeper.
You’re finally feel free — not because they changed, but because you did.
And now, you know this truth deep in your bones:
You’re finally feel free — not because they changed, but because you did.
And now, you know this truth deep in your bones:
You can love someone and still walk away.
You can love and still emotionally detach to save yourself.
You can stay connected without being consumed.
You can choose yourself — without guilt.
Ready for this?
INTRODUCING
Loving Without Losing Yourself
A coaching program for women with a loved one in active addiction.
A 12-week 1:1 coaching journey designed to help you reclaim your identity, set healthy boundaries, and find peace — even in the middle of someone else’s addiction.
By the end of Loving Without Losing Yourself, you’ll know how to:
Set and uphold boundaries without guilt
Protect your peace, end the chaos, and finally stop living at the mercy of someone else’s choices.
Detach with love
Release the urge to fix or control, and reclaim your emotional freedom while holding compassion for them and yourself.
Reconnect with who you are
Honor your emotions, trust your intuition, and step into a new chapter where you rise stronger, softer, and truly self-led.
12 Weeks of Private Coaching, Group Support, and Soul-Level Healing
► Weekly 1:1 private coaching session tailored to your journey
► A weekly group call with a small, supportive circle of women who truly understand
►Voxer support between sessions — because sometimes you need a lifeline in the moment, not just once a week
► Tools, practices, and compassionate guidance that will stay with you long after the program ends
$2,500 one-time payment
Multiple payment options available and also:
Hi, I’m Lori Coffey
I’ve been where you are.
A life-changing medical emergency forced me to stop and take a long, honest look at my life. It made me realize how short and precious our time is — and how important it is to live in alignment with who we truly are.
For over 30 years, I worked in healthcare because I genuinely wanted to help people. But the higher I climbed the corporate ladder, the further I felt I was from actually making a difference in people’s lives. When I finally admitted that my career no longer aligned with who I was, I had to ask myself: What now?
That’s when I began to fully embrace the healing journey I’d started years earlier — after leaving a toxic marriage and supporting my daughter through her addiction. These experiences broke me open and showed me the strength I never knew I had.
Now, I help other women navigate their own healing. Whether you’re recovering from a toxic relationship or trying to survive the chaos of a loved one’s addiction, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
Alongside my personal experience, I bring decades of behavioral leadership training, certifications in spirtual life coaching and intuitive energy healing, and I’m currently completing my NASM certification in wellness and nutrition coaching.
I believe movement is medicine — and when we lose ourselves, physical wellness often gets buried under the weight of survival. But when you reconnect with your body — sometimes for the first time — it changes everything.
With the coaching program Loving
Without Losing Yourself
You’ll finally understand that loving someone doesn’t mean abandoning yourself.
This program will change your life by showing you how to stop living in reaction to someone else’s addiction — and start living in alignment with your truth.
You’ll learn to set boundaries that protect your peace, stop enabling, reconnect with your identity, and make decisions from clarity instead of fear. You’ll walk away with the confidence to choose yourself — not just once, but every day.
Because when you stop trying to save them, you finally have the space to heal you.
I want this →Here are some most asked questions answered
What if my loved one is still actively using? Will this still help me?
What kind of support will I receive during the program?
What if I’m not comfortable sharing in a group setting?
How do the Voxer check-ins work?
Can I continue coaching after the 12 weeks are over?
What if I’m still in the relationship or situation I want to heal from? Will this still help me?
Are payment plans available?
A Final Word, from One Woman to Another
You’ve been carrying so much for so long — the fear, the guilt, the hope, the heartbreak. You’ve tried everything to help them. Now it’s time to do something for you.
This is not about giving up on your loved one.
This is about choosing to stop giving up on yourself.
I know what it feels like to love someone through addiction.
I’ve lived the sleepless nights, the second-guessing, the weight of trying to keep it all together.
You don’t have to keep living in survival mode. You don’t have to keep shrinking to keep the peace. You don’t have to carry this alone anymore.
If you feel like you’re standing at the edge of something — that’s not a coincidence.
This is your CLIFF Moment.
And you don’t have to leap alone. I’ll be right here with you, every step of the way.
Get Your CLIFF Moment
The Cliff Moment LLC is a personal growth and coaching company. Our programs and services are not a substitute for professional mental health care, nor are they intended to diagnose, treat, or cure any mental health or medical conditions. We do not provide medical or mental health training, nor do we offer services that require a regulated license.
